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		<title>The Not-So-Calm Before the Storm</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/06/05/the-not-so-calm-before-the-storm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2006 14:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This will be a fast and furious week before we head out to Padre. We leave next Monday to spend a week at The Tiki and purposefully spend time relaxing, playing, laughing, and learning who we are in Christ. The theme, blatantly stolen from Spencer over at The Ooze, is SOULARIZE. In preparation for my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This will be a fast and furious week before we head out to Padre.</p>
<p>We leave next Monday to spend a week at The Tiki and purposefully spend time relaxing, playing, laughing, and learning who we are in Christ. The theme, blatantly stolen from Spencer over at The Ooze, is SOULARIZE. </p>
<p>In preparation for my teaching, I&#8217;ve been looking at the beginning of our relationship with Christ. What is the core of salvation? Why have we boiled it down to a simple prayer or some cognitive recognition of facts&#8230;like our personal &#8216;state of the union&#8217;? Could there be more to it? </p>
<p>The bottom line is this: salvation is substitutionary. God provided a substitution in Christ (2 Cor 5:21, Isaiah 53:12) to accomplish what I could NEVER accomplish. My righteousness in Christ&#8217;s righteousness, not &#8216;self-righteousness&#8217; done through doing good things (btw&#8230;we do &#8216;good works&#8217; out of obedience, not in order to make up for the bad things we&#8217;ve done. See Romans 3:10) </p>
<p>It&#8217;s good to remember this: the lie of self-righteousness says that you must do good in order to please God. But God doesn&#8217;t love me when I&#8217;m good. </p>
<p>He just loves me. Not because of me, but because of Christ in me. My identity is in Christ, he is my substitute, so my righteousness (right standing with God) is His. My righteousness is as filthy rags. (Isaiah 64:6). </p>
<p>Yes, we MUST read scripture, pray, share the good news, and give. But those things are NOT what fulfills me: God fulfills me. Those things are merely the menu that leads to the meal. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t stop at the menu. It never satisfies. </p>
<p>Get to the meal.</p>
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		<title>All Hail the Power of Krisy Kreme</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/06/01/all-hail-the-power-of-krisy-kreme/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 12:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Monday, I took Darien on a &#8216;man date&#8217;. We picked up a couple of cherry slushes from Sonic, went to pick up some fishing lures, bike inner tubes, and a new soccer ball. On our way home, we spoiled our lunch by stopping off at Krispy Kreme. We spent nearly an hour sitting in [...]]]></description>
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On Monday, I took Darien on a &#8216;man date&#8217;. We picked up a couple of cherry slushes from  Sonic, went to pick up some fishing lures, bike inner tubes, and a new soccer ball. On our way home, we spoiled our lunch by stopping off at Krispy Kreme. We spent nearly an hour sitting in KK and talking about all the random things in a 5-year-old&#8217;s head. Good times.</p>
<p>Why is it that Krispy Kreme won&#8217;t sell t-shirts bigger than XL&#8230;.but Nike will sell sizes up to 5x??? Go figure.</p>
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		<title>Tempus Fugit, baby&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/06/01/tempus-fugit-baby/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 12:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is Thursday&#8230;.feels like a month since my last post, but it&#8217;s only been a few days. We&#8217;re in the middle of a tech remodel in our youth center (screens, DLP projectors, PA, etc.). Thank you, Jesus. But it&#8217;s a slow-going work. We&#8217;re trying to get it online by Saturday for a SBTC Disaster Relief [...]]]></description>
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Today is Thursday&#8230;.feels like a month since my last post, but it&#8217;s only been a few days. We&#8217;re in the middle of a tech remodel in our youth center (screens, DLP projectors, PA, etc.). Thank you, Jesus. But it&#8217;s a slow-going work. We&#8217;re trying to get it online by Saturday for a SBTC Disaster Relief Conference&#8230;.right now WE could use a little Disaster Relief.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s gonna be awesome&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Uncracking The Caner-DaVinci Connection</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/20/uncracking-the-caner-davinci-connection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 May 2006 21:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tom cottar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Aha! I *knew* it. The illustrious Steve Camp has put together the most concise rewiew of the DaVinci Code movie thus far: &#8220;40,000,000 people can be wrong.&#8221; But the best line in the review *has* to be the following: &#8220;The experience of watching this movie is kind of like listening to the Caner brothers: it [...]]]></description>
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Aha!</p>
<p>I *knew* it. The illustrious <a href="http://www.stevenjcamp.blogspot.com/">Steve Camp</a> has put together the most concise rewiew of the DaVinci Code movie thus far: &#8220;40,000,000 people can be wrong.&#8221;</p>
<p>But the best line in the review *has* to be the following:<br />
&#8220;The experience of watching this movie is kind of like listening to the Caner brothers: it is wearisome, nonsensical, arduous, historically twisted and in the end is unproductive.&#8221;</p>
<p>It brought a smile to my sun-dried face.</p>
<p>You can read the entire review <a href="http://www.stevenjcamp.blogspot.com/">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Phriday Phun</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/19/phriday-phun/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2006 18:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tom cottar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Engrish.com&#8230;just plain funny Plus, a huge list of 80&#8242;s music videos. Flock of Seagulls. Autograph. Power Station. Hair bands to new wave. Viva Los Ochenta! Thanks to the midway-cleansed marko for the link&#8230;]]></description>
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<a href="http://www.engrish.com">Engrish.com</a>&#8230;just plain funny</p>
<p>Plus, a huge list of 80&#8242;s music videos. Flock of Seagulls. Autograph. Power Station. Hair bands to new wave.  <a href="http://www.milinkito.com/los80.php">Viva Los Ochenta!</a> Thanks to the midway-cleansed <a href="http://ysmarko.com">marko</a> for the link&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.engrish.com"> </a></p>
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		<title>Baccalaureate</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/18/baccalaureate/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2006 17:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m speaking this Sunday at the first-ever Baccalaureate service for one of our area high schools. Good times. For my spring board, I&#8217;m using the following introduction, taken from Charles Sykes: Life is not fair- put on your big girl panties and get over it! The world won&#8217;t care about your self-esteem. The world will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m speaking this Sunday at the first-ever Baccalaureate service for one of our area high schools. Good times. For my spring board, I&#8217;m using the following introduction, taken from Charles Sykes:</p>
<ol>
<li>Life is not fair- put on your big girl panties and      get over it!  </li>
<li>The world won&#8217;t care about your self-esteem. The world will      expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. </li>
<li>You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You      won&#8217;t become a vice-president with a corner office until you earn both. </li>
<li> If you think Mrs. Bradley is tough, wait      till you get a boss. </li>
<li>Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents<br />
   had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity. </li>
<li>If you mess up, it&#8217;s not your parents&#8217; fault, so don&#8217;t whine      about your mistakes, learn from them. Besides,  your boss doesn&#8217;t speak  WHINESE. </li>
<li>Before you were born, your parents weren&#8217;t as boring as they      are<br />
   now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes<br />
   and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So<br />
   before you save the rain forest, try cleaning up your own room. </li>
<li>Some schools may have done away with winners and losers, but<br />
   life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and<br />
   they&#8217;ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer.<br />
   This doesn&#8217;t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. </li>
<li>Life is not divided into semesters. You don&#8217;t get summers off      and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do      that on your own time.  </li>
<li>Television is NOT real life. In real life, people actually have      to leave the coffee shop and go to their jobs. </li>
<li>Be nice to nerds. Chances are you&#8217;ll end up working for one. </li>
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<p><i>It&#8217;s an excerpt from the book &#8220;Dumbing Down our Kids&#8221; by educator Charles Sykes. It is a list of eleven things you did not learn in school and directed at high school and college grads.</i></p>
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<p>By the way&#8230;.the &#8216;big girl panties&#8217; line is mine, not Mr. Sykes&#8230;.don&#8217;t want to get him in trouble&#8230;</p>
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		<title>douggieboomer</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/18/douggieboomer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2006 17:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tom cottar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Woo-hoo! If you haven&#8217;t already, meet Douggieboomer (a.k.a. Doug Royer), our newest intern here. Welcome to the blogosphere, Douggie.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Woo-hoo!</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t already, meet <a href="http://douggieboomer.blogspot.com">Douggieboomer</a> (a.k.a. Doug Royer), our newest intern <a href="http://www.fbcpville.org/student.htm">here</a>.</p>
<p>Welcome to the blogosphere, Douggie.</p>
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		<title>An Invitation to Manhood</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/17/an-invitation-to-manhood/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 May 2006 14:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems as though I keep running across blogs/podcasts/sites with a recurring theme. This afternoon, I&#8217;m beginning to take one of our interns through Wild At Heart for the summer. Great book. Last night, I ran across a ministry/blog entitled Outfitting Your Faith which focuses on reaching men, either uninvolved or marginally involved in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems as though I keep running across blogs/podcasts/sites with a recurring theme.</p>
<p>This afternoon, I&#8217;m beginning to take one of our interns through <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785268839/sr=8-1/qid=1147882233/ref=pd_bbs_1/002-7980590-2587215?%5Fencoding=UTF8">Wild At Heart</a> for the summer. Great book. Last night, I ran across a ministry/blog entitled <a href="http://jasoncruise.blogspot.com/">Outfitting Your Faith</a> which focuses on reaching men, either uninvolved or marginally involved in the church, and creating relevant, authentic, godly friendships among the testosterone camp. And, this morning, I find <a href="http://www.joethorn.net/2006/05/15/missional-manhood/">this on Joe Thorn&#8217;s blog.</a> How cool would that be for us guys?</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m (still) churning around the question in my mind: What makes a godly man? How do we define Biblical manhood? Look at Jesus&#8217; relationship with the disciples. Look at the early church fathers. Even the earlier fathers of our faith such as Abraham, Moses, Jacob, David, Solomon, etc.</p>
<p>In a world where boys who grow up fatherless (the father essentially betrays his son into life as a half-man),  where do they look for manhood?</p>
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		<title>Scum Of The Earth!</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/14/scum-of-the-earth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 May 2006 20:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tom cottar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 2002, I heard Spencer Burke talk about a buddy who started a church in his living room. He called it &#8216;Scum of the Earth&#8217; Church, because he wanted to reach out to the outcasts, the vulnerable, and the social rejects of his area&#8230; I never found anything on it until now&#8230; Evidently, Pastor Mike [...]]]></description>
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In 2002, I heard <a href="http://www.theooze.com">Spencer Burke</a> talk about a buddy who started a church in his living room. He called it &#8216;Scum of the Earth&#8217; Church, because he wanted to reach out to the outcasts, the vulnerable, and the social rejects of his area&#8230; I never found anything on it until now&#8230;</p>
<p>Evidently, Pastor Mike Sares, 52, the a former Denver English teacher and musician&#8230;and buddy Spence was talking about. </p>
<p>The article I found is <a href="http://www.rockymountainnews.com/drmn/news_columnists/article/0,1299,DRMN_86_4682152,00.html">here</a>.<br />
You can get a peek at what&#8217;s going on at <a href="http://www.scumoftheearth.net">scumoftheearth.net </a>. </p>
<p>For any conspiracy theorists out there who may think that the church is teaching pablum-laced, watered-down theology, feel free to download sermons and/or subscribe to the podcast. You&#8217;ll find some great teaching, such as :<br />
&#8220;Stuff Jesus Said&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Being Drunk vs. Being Spirit Filled&#8221;<br />
&#8220;The Problem With Suffering&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Speaking in Tongues and Other Nonsense (and sense)&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;I think I&#8217;ll forward that last one to our IMB Trustees. </p>
<p>powered by <a href="http://performancing.com/firefox">performancing firefox</a></p>
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		<title>Hyperventilate&#8230;or breathe deep?</title>
		<link>http://www.tomcottar.org/2006/05/13/hyperventilateor-breathe-deep/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 May 2006 12:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tom cottar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re wrapping up our closing session as I&#8217;m typing this. The past 3 days of fellowship, networking, encouragement, and food (we ARE Baptist&#8230;) has been great. Did I mention how much I love San Antonio? Thanks to the SBTC for putting this together again for the 4th year. Wolf, Lasater, and all the staff have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re wrapping up our closing session as I&#8217;m typing this. The past 3 days of fellowship, networking, encouragement, and food (we ARE Baptist&#8230;) has been great. Did I mention how much I love San Antonio? </p>
<p>Thanks to the SBTC for putting this together again for the 4th year. Wolf, Lasater, and all the staff have done an outstanding job. </p>
<p>We&#8217;re heading back home after lunch&#8230;.good times.</p>
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