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  • My Generation

    Jan 25th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    As I sit here listening to Bono's Rolling Stone interview, I'm amazed at his depth and perception of the spiritual and cultural. If you've been living under a rock the past few months and don't know what I'm talking about, you definitely need to go to iTunes and download the podcasts. There are 7 parts in all, but are definitely worth the time invested. One [of many] things Bono says that are truly enlightened is this: "The greatest thing you can do for your generation is to betray it." Excuse me while I chew on that a while… In what ways would betraying my generation be good for it?

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  • Update…

    Jan 25th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    On Monday, I had a wonderfully cordial dialogue with Gary Ledbetter, Communications Director at SBTC. Having known Gary since 2002 and having some similar musical interests (Gary is a former drummer who’s gigged with some interesting people—viva the Lizard King!), it was good to catch up and fill in some blanks from both perspectives.

    According to Ledbetter, “our basic concern was that apparent support of Faith Harbour for a ministry that we perceived would affirm sinful behavior rather than just the sinners.” That issue alone seems to be the rub for many as I listen to AP reporters, et al. It looks like people all over the country are watching and scrutinizing this event….sheesh. Nonetheless, my conversation with Ledbetter was extremely fruitful and cordial.

    Of course, I’m not sure the conversation over at the Harbor’s blog has been as productive. You can keep tabs on it here.

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  • The Fly Guy

    Jan 23rd 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    Click here for Monday’s Mindless Fun…

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  • Banned!

    Jan 23rd 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    This banned XBOX ad reminds me of the way we, The Church, turn on each other. Especially the closing two words…

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  • My Agenda, Mr. Manelikocu

    Jan 23rd 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    I have an anonymous lurker who, on another blog, has accused me of having some kind of hidden agenda among Faith Harbour issue. On this blog, he identifies himself as Manelikocu, but gives no real identifying information, except that he knows a great deal about the Harbour/SBTC issue and claims to have information that would easily correct me on the issue.

    Let me be perfectly clear.

    As you erroneously on The Harbour’s blog, I do not have some kind of agenda contrary to the SBTC, as a former employee. I am blessed to serve as Student Pastor at a loyal SBTC church. As an inerrantist with a ‘high view of scripture’, I am grateful for the theological, missiological, and methodological philosophies which founded our convention. If you’re not sure what those are, google it. I have neither the time nor the inclination to play tag with an invisible man’s cowardice.

    You mistakenly assume my brother, worship pastor at another church in another city, is me. My brother NEVER worked for SBTC, and doesn’t even serve at an SBC church, but a Vineyard church. Let’s get the facts straight.

    When you claim I have an agenda, you are making me into some kind of evangelical Jesse Jackson, directly attacking my character and integrity. You are treading on very thin ice, my brother. Have the nads to email me at tom@fbcpville.org. I’ll give you my cell phone and we’ll talk face-to-face. Better yet, I’ll drive to Baytown and buy the Starbucks. Either way, let’s grow some and act like big boys, k?

    I’ll let you in on a litte secret, little bro. I DO have an agenda. You can read about it here.

    At this point, I’ll refrain from removing your comments and ‘disassociating’ this blog with anonymous bloggers in the hopes that others will feel uninhibited to take part in discussions here without having arrows flung at them.

    Of course, Jesus had an agenda, too.

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  • SBTC Pastor Removed, Part 5–The Rub

    Jan 20th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    Yesterday, Jan. 20, Bapist Press and Jerry Pierce (SBTC) issued yet another article in an effort to put out the fire. According to the article, Rix Tillman, pastor of Exciting Immanuel Baptist Church in El Paso and a credentials committee member, said Haney unconvincingly tried to argue to the committee that because Eklektos is not technically a church, no constitutional problem existed. “The sticking point was that he was allowing a homosexual-affirming fellowship to meet in his building,” Tillman said.“Right there on their website they said [they] are an enabling or affirming [fellowship]. It’s OK to say you welcome homosexuals, but they were saying we not only welcome them and but we also go along to affirm them. That was open and shut as far as our [SBTC] constitution goes.” Let’s keep repeating this long enough, and maybe someone will believe that it was really the point to begin with.. (OK, that last part was mine, not Rix’s.)

    SBTC board chairman Joe Stewart said, “When we sign an agreement to be a part of the SBTC, we have those theological parameters that we live and abide through and that is part of what makes us unique and distinct.”

    Please understand, I get it. I understand what Stewart is saying, but I found it interesting that in an unrelated article, I found Wade Burleson (amidst his own fiasco) saying:

    “Conservatives who loved the battles of decades past have fallen victim to a crusading mentality of bloodthirst,” … “Since all the liberals are gone, conservative crusaders are now killing fellow conservatives.”

    The article also quotes Burleson’s blog from December 10, 2005, saying:
    “Sadly, the Southern Baptist Convention is now moving toward a time when everyone must look the same, talk the same, act the same, believe the same on the nonessentials of the faith, or else you will be removed as `not one of us’.”

    Thoughts?

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  • SBTC Pastor Removed, Part 4

    Jan 20th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    In a unique turn of events yesterday, an AP reporter contacted Gary Ledbetter, Editor In Chief at SBTC and someone whom I consider a friend, about this whole matter. According to Ledbetter ” they were not concerned about Haney starting a new church and they were not concerned about him setting up a woman as senior pastor.”

    Wait a minute…let me go back and read the original report submitted by Jerry Pierce……Nope. That’s what I thought. Hmmmm….

    According to yesterday’s Baytown Sun, SBTC board chairman Joe Stewart, who is pastor of First Baptist Church of Littlefield, said the convention supports reaching out to the homosexual community but that the Eklektos ministry “goes too far”.

    “We do believe it’s a sin and, of course, we want to do our best to help them find the transformation that’s available in Jesus Christ,” Stewart said. “The major issue is the lady that’s leading it doesn’t even consider the homosexual lifestyle is sinful.”

    Ahh…There it is.

    Ledbetter goes on to say “Would we start a ministry for alcoholics that was affirming alcohol abuse in the name of love and just sort of hoping they get the idea there’s a better way to live? There’s a line that’s crossed that says we’re comfortable with the way you live and believe it’s just as good a way to live as any other even though the Bible says otherwise.”

    I’m not sure that’s the point. Wouldn’t the point be to start a ministry that reaches out to alcoholics because you believe it’s not just as good a way to live as any other? It seems that you don’t take healthy people to the emergency room, but those who are critically ill. If alcoholism is OK….then just leave them alone.

    Can you encourage an alcoholic without condoning alcohol abuse? Sure. Could that be misconstrued as ‘affirming’ alcoholics? Sure. Especially to those afraid of alcholics.

    Perhaps the problem is in the language. To one, ‘affirming a homosexual’ could mean ‘God loves you more than you realize. Let’s talk about the Prince of Peace…” But to another, ‘affirming a homosexual’ could mean ‘It’s OK to have the kind of sex you’re having, live the lifestye you’re living, God doesn’t really want you to change your behavior’. Huge difference.

    Again, if I’m missing the point, I stand open and ready to receive correction. [Of course, to one, that may mean, "....]

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  • SBTC Removes Pastor, Part 3

    Jan 19th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    If you haven’t already done so, please read the Baptist Press story here.
    Read Part One of this post.
    Read Part Two of this post.

    To close out the evening, Biles told Haney that he had to write a letter that explained his theological postition on homosexuality, disavow the “new church”, Eklektos, disavow Wendy Bailey, and promise to never have anything to do with her again. Haney simply responded with “no”, and thus ended the meeting. Biles reported to Haney that they would be disassociating Faith Harbour, but would be giving him an opportunity to speak in his defense in their formal committee meeting back in Grapevine. (I don’t think he was given an opportunity to speak to the formal committee).

    FYI, here’s a quote from Wendy Bailey’s blog, the alleged ‘pastor’ of the ‘gay church’:
    “Aside from the fact that Eklektos is not a “church” in any official capacity, and I am not the Senior Pastor, it’s a shame that the political climate of the SBTC is such that merely associating with a ministry outreach that does not condemn homosexuals is so threatening. Does Jesus condemn homosexuals? No, Jesus goes out of his way to associate with people the church of his day condemned, and he offered them love”
    Bailey continues, “I realize that many people differ on the Biblical interpretation of Scripture surrounding issues of homosexuality. My hope is that Eklektos will minister within that controversy and seek Christ in the midst of it. I acknowledge that even the most faithful Christians can disagree over whether homosexuality is sinful — Randy and I differ on that issue — but this ministry is here to reach people who are typically ostracized and hurt by the Church, and to offer them a loving and non-judgemental community in which to seek Christ and grow in discipleship. Even if we all agreed that homosexuality was a sin, should a church require gay and lesbians to be celibate or “convert” to heterosexuality? No. Not anymore than the church should require divorced people to reconcile, wealthy people to divest their money from companies that promote unrepentant consumerism, or gluttonous people to go on diets.”

    For myself, this is NOT an issue about homosexuality [and, yes, I believe it's sin]. This is an issue of reaching across denominational lines to take the gospel to every community and sub-culture in our society. From where I sit, the SBTC never acted on the matter…they only reacted. They reacted to the fact that one of their own would reach out to the gay community with the hopes of ‘going and making disciples’. The point is not homosexuality, but the manner in which the Credentials Committee moved and handled the situation.

    So, thank you. Thanks to those involved for driving another wedge in the name of Christ. Maybe someday they will realize why so many of my generation have completely unplugged from denominational life. Maybe they’ll realize that by their actions, as well as other similar organizations, they are giving us passion to preach the gospel. Wherever. Whenever. By whatever means necessary. The Good News is too important to be locked up in a tower with imported Italian marble floors.

    Hmmm…

    Am I way off base here? Have I missed the point? Is there some glaring truth that I’m not seeing? Again, if I’m missing the big picture, I humbly ask to be shown my error.

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  • SBTC Removes Pastor, Part 2

    Jan 19th 2006

    By: tom cottar

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    If you haven’t already done so, please read the Baptist Press story here:

    Read part one of this post.

    If the BP report was accurate, I would have a completely different opinion on the action taken. I personally interviewed Randy Haney, pastor of Faith Harbour, at 3:30 on the afternoon of December 21st. With his permission, I humbly submit the following information to the trustees, executive board, staff, and members of the SBTC. If I am in error, I would welcome your correction according to Matthew 18.

    On Monday, December 19th, Haney received a phone call from the pastor at FBC, Galena Park [also Executive VP of the SBTC] casually saying, “Can a couple of guys and I meet with you tomorrow? I’d like to visit with you about how your ministry is going…”

    The Executive Committee rallied at the Golden Corral, along with a couple of SBTC staffers to ‘prepare’ for the confrontation. The nine men then went to The Harbour to meet with Haney at 5pm and accuse him of starting a new gay church in Baytown.

    When Haney asked how the SBTC heard such an outlandish report, Biles replied, “One of our convention pastors contacted me and told me the news.”

    “I assured them that I was not starting a new church and gave them a brief history of my relationship with Wendy Bailey”, said Haney, “I met her when she was the pastor of Westminster Presbyterian Church in Baytown. I was interested in getting to know her and her family because of our mutual support of the Baytown Little Theater… Our families did some things together and she approached me one day, about 6 months ago, about trying to reach out to the gay, lesbian community of Baytown. I also teach school at Sterling High School and see this community in our school on a daily basis. I was interested in talking with her and thus began the idea to start a new ministry.”

    “In November”, Haney continued, “we met with about 6 people to discuss a strategy for starting a ministry that would not be directly affiliated with any church. After several planning sessions we decided to have a worship service at The Harbour, the coffeehouse/ music venue where Faith Harbour meets. That meeting took place on December 22, two days after the meeting with the credentials committee. After this brief discussion the committee was still interested in why I was starting a new church. We argued most of the night over the fact that I was not starting a new church. They quoted from my blog site some things that Wendy had written, but none of these comments stated that we were starting a new church.”

    They also quoted from a website that piggybacked on The Harbour’s site. Wendy had started a website [eklektos.theharbourbaytown.com], but no one could link to that website from The Harbour [http://www.theharbourbaytown.com/].

    [continue to Part 3]

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  • SBTC Removes Pastor Over Homosexuality Controversy

    Jan 18th 2006

    By: tom cottar

    3 comments

    According to Jerry Pierce, Managing Editor for the SBTC Texan, their executive board has acted unanimously to disaffiliate a church for violating the convention’s constitutional provision concerning churches that “affirm, approve, or endorse homosexual behavior.”I

    n a report written by the Minister/Church Relations Director Deron Biles, he and another staff member, along with the SBTC credentials committee, met Dec. 20 for one hour and 45 minutes with the pastor of Faith Harbour, Randy Haney, with a “redemptive aim” according to Matthew 18.

    Biles recounted that the committee hoped to clarify Faith Harbour’s stance toward a church it is helping sponsor and allowing to meet in its facilities, which bills itself on its website as welcoming and affirming of homosexual, bisexual and trangendered people. Allegedly, the new “church”, Eklektos, has a female senior pastor [Wendy Bailey]. By the way, you can read Wendy Bailey’s blog on the incident.
    Please read the Baptist Press story here:
    http://www.bpnews.net/bpnews.asp?ID=22464

    Geez. [sniff. sniff.] I think there’s more to this story than meets the eye.

    Why? Because I personally know the guy. Randy Haney, pastor at Faith Harbour in Baytown, is a ‘conservative emergent’-type who wholeheartedly believes the act of homosexual sex is wrong. When I talked with Randy on the phone last night, he told me “if I didn’t think homosexuality was wrong, I wouldn’t be involved with this ministry! My goal is to take the redemptive gospel to the gay and lesbian community, that they know that God has a better plan for them.”

    So?…..What’s the deal? I’m not sure at this point. Having known Randy over 15 years, and also having known the inner workings of convention life, I know that there’s more to this than BP is telling us. We’ll see how this develops…

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