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  • Jump With Me, Part Two

    Aug 23rd 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    [be sure and read Part One before reading the following...]

    Bell quotes a man giving a lecture on creation. At one point, the man says, “If you don’t believe that God created the world in six literal twenty-four hour days, then you are denying that Jesus ever died on the cross.” It’s a bizarre leap of logic….but he was serious.

    For this man, his faith isn’t a trampoline; it’s a wall of bricks. Each of the beliefs for him is like an individual brick, stacked on top of another. If you pull one out, the whole thing starts to crumble. It appears to be strong and rigid, but if you begin to rethink even one brick, the whole thing may start to crumble.

    The problem of living in Brickworld, is that a brick is a fixed size. It can’t flex or change because if it does, it can’t fit into the wall anymore. What happens is that the wall becomes the sum total of the beliefs, and God becomes as big as the wall. But God is bigger than any wall. Or religion. Or worldview. God is bigger than your and my understanding of the Christian faith.

    For those of us living in Brickworld, our posture becomes pretty defensive. We spend a lot of time defending the wall and proving our bricks are the right ones. (You rarely defend a trampoline…you invite people to jump on it with you.)

    Ever seen someone pull a picture of his wife/girlfriend/kids out of his wallet and begin to argue the supremacy of this particular loved one? Of course not. They simply show you and invite you to see what they already see.

    [On a side note, Brickworld has a tendency to keep everyone out unless they have the right bricks. Maybe you've been outside the wall before, like I have, and you know what I'm talking about.]

    Jesus? He invites everyone to jump. The least. The unlovely. The lepers and prostitutes. The struggling single Mom [or Dad]. The family who seems to have it all together, but really is just playing ‘church’.

    Leave Brickworld. Shake the dust from your sandals.

    And come jump with me.

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  • Jump With Me, Part One

    Aug 23rd 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    James and I are reading Rob Bell’s Velvet Elvis. In the introduction, Bell raises some interesting metaphors. Take, for instance, the trampoline.

    To Bell, the Christian faith is akin to a trampoline, held together by its many springs. With a trampoline, you really don’t see the need for springs until you begin to jump. Although Gindrup could probably give us all the practical details of Newtonian physics as to exactly how inert energy is stored and released, thus making the trampoline actually ‘work’, ….initially, I just want to jump. And laugh.

    In Bell’s metaphor, the springs aren’t God. They aren’t Jesus. The springs are the statements and beliefs about our faith that help put words to our experience we call ‘doctrine’. They aren’t the point. They help us understand the point, but are not a means to an end. We take them seriously, while keeping them in perspective.

    For example, take the doctrine–the spring–called the Trinity. It’s central to orthodox Christian faith. While there is only one God, this God has a three-in-oneness as Father, as Jesus, and as the Holy Spirit. People began calling this concept ‘The Trinity’. Keep in mind that Jesus never used the word trinity, that it’s not found in the Bible, etc. But over time, this belief has become central to how Jesus Followers have understood who God is. It is a spring, and people jumped for thousands of years without it. We can take it out, examine it, probe it, discuss it. It flexes and stretches.

    In fact, its ‘stretchability’ is what makes it so effective. It is firmly attached to the frame and the mat, yet it has room to move. And God continually brings in a fuller, richer, deeper understanding to who He is.

    Think about the various springs in our faith. What are they? Virgin birth? Literal resurrection of Christ? Beliefs about creation? Salvation by grace? The work of the Church? How you are supposed to ‘worship’? How you are supposed to ‘love your neighbor as yourself’?

    What if your springs were seriously questioned? Could you keep jumping? Could a person still love God? Could you still be a Christian?

    Ready for Part Two? Let’s talk about bricks…

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  • 9 Out Of 10 Ain’t Bad, Fellas

    Aug 22nd 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    My goal was simple: ten things to NOT do… reflecting back, here’s a postmortem of the week.

    1. I didn’t see Jess and the gang in the new Dukes movie. However, I DID get suckered into seeing March of the Penguins…ugh. Seriously, I have Discovery Channel at home, why am I here? Because Valiant sold out and my boys wanted to see a movie at the ‘big FE-a-TUR’. Save your 8 bucks and let me fill you in: penguins migrate to the same spot each year to mate. It takes a long time. Evidently a really long time. Long enough to drink a bladder-buster size Mr. Pibb and eat 7 lbs. of popcorn and still have time to slip out for some video games before the little penguin chicks have to waddle off into the arctic sunset. It’s long. And slow. [I guess penguins aren't really that fast, anyway...] I should email Morgan Freeman and demand my money back…he must really, really, really like penguins. I am Jack’s complete lack of surprise.

    2. I didn’t run out and buy Oprah’s DVD.

    3. I didn’t check my daily cosmic calendar at astrology.com. Nope, not even once. And I slept pretty dang well at night, too.

    4. I didn’t save a ton of money by switching to Geico. But I did save a little. I guess that makes up for the Penguin fiasco.

    5. I didn’t worry that I still don’t have an iPOD. Music has become pretty disposable these days, anyway. With deals like ‘buy 100 CDR’s for $14.95 and get a rebate for $14.95, I guess I’m good for a while.

    6. Unfortunately, I DID mow. Our landlord has put up our house for sale, so I needed to get out and get the yard in shape. Such is life.

    7. I didn’t catch a 45-lb. catfish. Ugly doesn’t describe ‘em. But Darien and I did do some fishing and catch a few bass and perch. For those of you who aren’t fisherman, let me just say that we were pretty thrilled to catch ANYTHING in the +100 degree heat…

    8. I didn’t worry about gas prices. Whatcha’ gonna do?

    9. I didn’t listen to any PCD. For the record, I could do this one for the rest of my life…

    10. I didn’t shave. Don’t worry, I did bathe though. After all, soap is the yardstick of civilization.

    A week of sabbath rest. Wow. A week without wearing a watch or being on a schedule. Taking walks. Watching people. No phones or internet–and still surviving! Fasting from all things hectic.

    I highly recommend it…

    It feels good to be back. Recharged for the days ahead [and regular blogging and dialogue].

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  • Top Ten Things I’m NOT Going To Do On My Vacation Next Week

    Aug 10th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    School starts August 16, and I’m going to hibernate. Find a cave somewhere where I can regain my voice. After a summer tour of Laguna Beach, hurricanes, shark attacks, middle school camp, Mexico, and a truckload of other stuff….I’m headed for 7 fun-filled days and nights of…nothing. We’re definitely going to spend a couple of days in San Antonio eating and seeing just how fat I can get. I’m also excited about taking the boys fishing and going on a few dates with my wife. But, here’s a few things I’m NOT going to do…

    1. Watch the new Dukes of Hazzard movie. Seriously, Jessica, please stop talking. Just sing. And remember when Chuck let you sing at YEC at Reunion Arena? Yeah, back then when you were fully dressed? Good times. Say ‘hi’ to Joe for me…

    2. Run out and buy The Best of Oprah DVD. Do I really need to explain this one?

    3. Check my daily cosmic calendar at astrology.com. “Opportunities are knocking throughout the morning hours – particularly in the fields of education, publishing, literature, religious and philosophical studies. However, all may not go according to Hoyle due to some celestial nastiness in the form of a Venus-Pluto square (1:54AM PDT) and Venus moving 135 degrees to Mars (2:03PM PDT). The net result is that Venus – the traditional planet of love and romance – is compromised while in the sign of Virgo. Striving for perfection in any form brings disappointment. It’s fine to work hard toward your goals and be persistent in spite of setbacks, but happiness may be fleeting right now.”

    Really? I’m sure it doesn’t matter that I pulled this from the Virgo chart, even though I’m an Aries. Since my Daddy made those stars, I’ll just get my 411 from Him. But thanks for playing along…

    4. Save a ton of money on my car insurance by switching to Geico. Why? Because Tony Little creeps me out. And it’s not just the ponytail…

    5. Worry that I’m the only one in my office who doesn’t own an iPod yet. I’m sure some day I’ll give in. Some day I’ll be cool. But just not today. (even though I do have my own PODshow, Tom’s Untitled PODshow, and you can win a free iPod by coming up with a cool name!)

    6. Mow.

    7. Catch one of these. Too scary.

    8. Worry about gas prices. Just go here, put in your zipcode and get the best price in your area. Besides, there are bigger problems to worry about.

    9. Listen to any Phillips, Craig, and Dean. In honor of Cameron Roucloux…[love ya, bro!]

    10. Shave. I hate shaving. Seriously, can one of you brainiac guys out there hurry up and patent a pill that I can take so I’ll never have to shave again. Maybe a little genetic engineering would come in handy here….

    I’m not sure exactly what I will be doing, so be sure to look for my mug on America’s Most Wanted!

    (P.S. Check back in a couple of days for an audioblog!)

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  • my God can beat up your god

    Aug 4th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    This has been ‘one of those weeks’.
    Early in the week the AC in our house went out.
    Over the weekend, someone busted the window out of one of our cars (tried to steal the radio, I guess).
    Yesterday, the AC in the other car went out.
    And then there’s the busyness of playing catch-up at church from being gone so much this summer, preparing for changes in our ministry, explaining it all…

    And it’s only Thursday morning.

    But yesterday I had lunch with some friends. We met at Burger Tex for a good ‘ol greasy 1/2 pound mushroom and pepperjack burger. I walked in wearing a t-shirt that says ‘My God can beat up your god”. They guy behind the counter, Andrew, gave me the once-over.

    I didn’t know this guy, Andrew. He’s tall, lanky, strawberry blond goatee and shaggy hair…actually, he looks alot like this guy, but with lots of prison tattoos. Down each forearm he has the words “Third” and “Coast”, and across the knuckles on each hand is “hillbilly”. A couple more tats peek out from under his t-shirt sleeves and the side of his neck.

    He takes my order, then dryly says, “cool shirt, bro”.

    “Thanks.” I get my greasy burger and DP and take off. But all the while I’m sitting, eating, and talking, I’m thinking about this guy and his story. So, I leave my table of friends and track down Andrew in the back of the burger joint. I tell him that I picked up my shirt downtown in a vintage shop and would pick up one for him next time I was there if he wanted.

    He looked at me like a deer in headlights.

    “Yeah, cool. 2XL if they’ve got it. …” So we talked. Turns out Andrew was raised in Houston (5th ward) and just moved here. He tells me about giving his life to Christ at VBS when he was in 3rd grade, and about his involvement in gangs, drugs, prostitution….then he lifts his shirt to show me his favorite tattoo on his stomach: a picture of Christ with tears in his eyes and ‘Jesus wept’ written below it.

    “Through all of it, I never lost my faith,” he says. “Sounds strange, but I always knew I had to get back to God whatever it took. Some people don’t understand that. But it was like He was in the back of my head through all of it saying, ‘Andrew, you ain’t gonna make it in life without Me. You know that.’ And He was right. And when my mom and dad got killed…. I knew He was the only one I had left.”

    All of a sudden, the car problems don’t matter anymore. The hustle and bustle of living, the frantic pace of ministry….are just pebbles in my shoe. Life is full of those moments. It’s like Ferris Bueller said,“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t look around, you might miss it.”

    We talked while my burger got cold. I introduced him to my wife and kids. Darien gave him a high five. We exchanged smiles.

    “Martha, Martha. [or "Tom, Tom"] You are worried about many things. But only one thing is necessary…”

    (plus, I made a new friend.) :)

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  • 112292874560666309

    Aug 1st 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I survived the summer tour of Panama Beach, Middle School Camp, Mexico, and other random tests of endurance and sanity….anyone ready for school yet?

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  • 100 Things I’ve Learned About Church

    Aug 1st 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    Now that my summer ‘tour’ is pretty much over and the dust is settling, I can begin to blog regularly again… This morning I’ve pondered posting several things. However, perhaps most important to the conversation (at least, today) is the following excerpt from begin with grey.

    • Every argument can be turned back into a conversation by believing “It’s okay if I’m completely wrong about this.”
    • All of us are always in progress always, all the time.
    • Making a church look cool does not make it ‘postmodern’.
    • When it comes to church; style does not equal substance. There are plenty of ‘uncool’ churches that are far more “postmodern”/”emergent” than the “cool” churches.
    • “New Look, Same Great Taste!” doesn’t work if it tastes nasty.
    • Churches spend countless resources in pursuit of the perfect formula for getting people saved. There is no formula. There never has been, there never will be.
      You can’t buy the formula, you can’t sell the formula, you can’t go to a ‘cool’ church and copy the formula. No amount of research will reveal the formula. So just step away from the [Saddleback].
    • Read the bible, everyone. Relentlessly discuss what it says with as many different kinds of people as possible. (is that a formula?)
    • The word “christian” means all kinds of things to all kinds of people. Very often it means bad things. Same with ‘Jesus’, God, Savior, etc.
    • Republican does not equal Christian.
    • Two steps towards irrelevance: one, hold an evangelistic event that will impress your christian friends. two, blame the ‘unbelievers’ if they don’t get saved.
    • What works for another church will not necessarily work for yours. Especially anything with the number forty in it.

    Sounds harsh, I know. I’m not sure I agree with the original post entirely, but it is good food for thought. How much of this am I guilty of?

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  • I Am Gay-Friendly

    Jul 16th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    Funny how this stuff works.
    I am in a continuing dialogue about how we as Christ Followers are supposed to treat ‘sinners’ (unbelievers), specifically homosexuals. I ran across this article this morning from martyduren’s blog. (thanks, marty!)

    http://www.bpnews.net/bpfeature.asp?ID=1890

    Good thoughts.

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  • My Personal Scorpion of Sin

    Jul 6th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    There once was a very old tale, written long ago. It can be traced back to ancient Sanskrit, written by a royal scholar named Bidpai. Remember?

    A scorpion, being a very poor swimmer, asked a turtle to carry him on his back across a river.
    “Are you mad?” asked the turtle, “you’ll sting me and I’ll drown.”
    My dear turtle,” laughed the scorpion, “if I were to sting you, you would drown and I would go down with you. Why would I do that?”
    “You’re right!” cried the turtle. “Hop on!” The scorpion climbed aboard and halfway across the river he gave the turtle a mighty sting. As they both sank to the bottom, the turtle desperately said:
    “You promised you wouldn’t sting me. Why did you do it?”
    “It is my nature to sting,” the drowning scorpion sadly replied. “After all, you knew I was a scorpion when you let me climb onto your back.”

    After his recent conversion, Dave Mustaine (yes, this Dave Mustaine) released a new album earlier this year entitled ‘The System Has Failed’. In ‘The Scorpion’, he states:
    As I climb upon your back,
    I will promise not to sting.
    I will tell you things you want to hear
    and not mean anything.
    I will treat you like a dog
    as I shoot my venom in.
    You knew all along
    that I am a scorpion.

    Reality check:
    I thought I could make it across without getting stung by sin. But now that the poison is in my blood, my fear is that I’ll drown out here. It is as if my own sin is telling me “As you go down, remember one thing: you knew what I was when you invited me onto your back.” I don’t want to go down like this.

    Yes, Christ forgives me.
    Yes, as his adopted son, I’ll never be sent away.
    Nevertheless, the stench of my sin must make God’s stomach churn. My nature [probably yours, too] is to return to our sin again and again, like a dog to his vomit.

    We are called to die to sin. But sometimes I just can’t die dead enough.

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  • Foolishness to the Greeks #1

    Jul 2nd 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I’ve begun another chapter in the never-ending discussion of Christ and culture over in the Emerging Leaders Forum and thought I’d post some comments here as well. We are reading Newbigin’s ‘Foolishness to the Greeks’, which begins propositionally with the question “What would be involved in a missionary encounter between the gospel and Western culture?”
    As conservative Evangelicals, we are often unaware of the cultural conditioning of our ‘religion’ and, therefore guilty of confusing the Gospel with the ‘American Way’. Most of the time it slips under our radar and, I think, is done subconsciously. (e.g. God always favors the white collar, Left Behind-reading, bumpersticker-touting, WWJD bracelet-wearing Americans who vote Republican….right?)

    {quickly moving on before the rants begin…}

    First, we have to define culture. Newbigin defines it as the sum total of ways of living developed by a group of human beings and handed on from generation to generation. This includes language (because it is the vehicle for expression and perception), visual and musical arts, tehcnologies, law, social and political organization, and religion.

    Of course, given this definition, the Gospel is always contextualized…either consciously or subconsciously. He states that there can never be a time when the Gospel is not embodied in a culturally conditioned form of words. The idea that the ‘pure gospel’ could be presented as unadulterated by culture is absurd. Bottom line: the gospel is the Word made flesh. Thus, there cannot be a culture-free gospel.

    Interesting point from Chapter 1: In Acts 26, Paul recounts to his Greek-speaking critics that God spoke to him….not in Greek, but in Hebrew, the language of his home and heart, his mother tongue. And it is his native language that God uses to convict Paul that his life must turn around, a radical metanoia. What Paul thought of service to God was actually fighting against God.

    His native language is used by God to convict him.

    I only have one question: Has God ever used Pearl Jam or Metallica or Dave Matthews to convict you?

    Any thoughts?

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