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  • Apology [not what you think]

    Jun 21st 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I don’t wanna complicate You
    I don’t wanna obligate You
    I don’t wanna segregate You in this world

    Come and obliterate me
    Give life, don’t suffocate me
    I am just a reprobate. Me.
    That is who I am.

    [empty hands that bring you nothing you don't have.]
    [broken, needy, dying in this land.]

    I don’t want to love and hate You.
    I don’t want to give and take You.
    I don’t want to desecrate You to this world.

    Come and castigate me.
    Mold and gently make me.
    I am still a reprobate. Me.
    That is who I am.

    [beggars come with empty pockets to Your throne]
    [Mercy, Lord, on those whose lives You own]

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  • 111815866552922768

    Jun 7th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    A few weeks back, I was involved in a [continuing] conversation regarding the definition of community. The realization has come that, done correctly, discipleship breeds community and evangelism. Evangelism breeds community and discipleship. Of course, community is supposed to breed evangelism and discipleship.

    Consider the words of Keith Miller from his ‘Scent of Love’:

    “The early church grew not because of the spiritual gifts of Christians, and not because Christianity was a palatable doctrine but because they had discovered the secret of community. Generally they did not have to lift a finger to evangelise. Someone would be walking down a back alley in Ephesus and would see a group of people sitting together talking about the strangest of things – something about a man, a tree and an execution and an empty tomb. What they were talking about made no sense to the onlooker. But there was something about the way they spoke to one another, about the way they looked at one another, about the way they cried together, about the way they laughed together, the way they touched one another that was strangely appealing. It gave off the scent of love. The onlooker would start to drift farther down the alley, only to be pulled back to this group like a bee to a flower. He would listen some more, still not understanding, and start to drift away again. But again he would be pulled back, thinking, I don’t have the slightest idea what these people are talking about, but whatever it is I want part of it.”

    In my deepest being, that is what I long for. To be a part of that community…anyone want in?

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  • Calvinism Revisited, Part 1

    Jun 6th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I am really rushed for time today, so this is not nearly as complete as I’d like, but it’s a starting point. Hopefully, I can revisit this over the next few days…Thanks for you patience! The primary issue for me is the Free Will vs. Predestination/Election contention. Calvinism would argue that God bestows faith on those whom He elected before the foundation of the world (see Romans 8 below), regardless of any forseen reaction to obedience (like winning the lottery). Arminianism agrues that election is based on God's sovreign knowledge of what man would do in response to his grace. The Scripture does indeed teach predestination. (I’m definitely not debating that). For instance, For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the first-born among many brethren; and whom He predestined, these He also called; and whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified. (Romans 8:29-30) and here: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before Him. In love He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, which He freely bestowed on us in the Beloved. (Ephesians 1:3-6) To me, this is different than what Calvinism proposes (at least the way I read it. Again, I could be wrong…) Limited Atonement (Calvinism) as I am familiar with it states that Christ's death secured salvation only for the elect. For example, "Christ's redeeming work was intended to save the elect only and actually secured salvation for them … In addition to putting away the sins of His people, Christ's redemption secured everything necessary for their salvation, including faith, which united them to Him. The gift of faith is infallibly applied by the Spirit to all for whom Christ died, thereby guaranteeing their salvation." (David N. Steele, Curtis C. Thomas; The Five Points of Calvinism, Defined, Defended, Documented: Presbyterian and Reformed Publishing Co., 1975, p. 1 7) Nevertheless, Scripture says that Jesus died for all men, not just the elect. "My little children, I am writing these things to you that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world." (1 John 2:1) "For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost." (Luke 19:10) For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died for all, therefore all died; and He died for all, that they who live should no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf. (2 Corinthians 5:14-15) “But we do see Him who has been made for a little while lower than the angels, namely, Jesus, because of the suffering of death crowned with glory and honor, that by the grace of God He might taste death for everyone.” (Hebrews 2:9) His blood can wash away anyone's sin. “The next day he saw Jesus coming to him, and said, "Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world! “ (John 1:29) My little children, I am writing these things to you that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world. (1 John 2:1-2) The gospel is for all men. And He said to them, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. "He who has believed and has been baptized shall be saved; but he who has disbelieved shall be condemned. (Mark 16:15-16) For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. (Romans 1:16) Arminism agrues that Christ’s death secured salvation for anyone, but that it will be the elect who respond, for God is not a respecter of persons. ‘And opening his mouth, Peter said: "I most certainly understand now that God is not one to show partiality, but in every nation the man who fears Him and does what is right, is welcome to Him.’ (Acts 10:34-35) ‘For there is no partiality with God.’ (Rom 2:11-12) ‘God does not will that any perish but all be saved: For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men’ (Tit 2:11) ‘This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave Himself as a ransom for all, the testimony borne at the proper time. (1 Ti 2:3-4) The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance. (2 Pe 3:9) If I am predestined, why worry about Satan? 1 Peter 5:8-9 says: Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls about like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. But resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same experiences of suffering are being accomplished by your brethren who are in the world. Although I realize that, in the very same breath (v.10) Peter writes, “And after you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you.” As i said above, perhaps I can spend more time here in a couple of days…..Meanwhile, your comments, questions, and complaints are always welcome! Peace of Christ to you all.

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  • Recovering Calvinist?

    Jun 6th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    At longshot’s inquiry, I’ll take a stab at explaining why I feel the way I do…

    Most of us are familiar with Calvinism. You remember TULIP, right? Total Depravity, Unconditional Election, Limited Atonement, Irrestible Grace, and Perserverance of the Saints.

    Because most of my formative and adult years I was surrounded by Calvinists ,(parents, pastors, professors, etc), even those who didn’t express themselves as such, I always assumed that the ‘ol TULIP was right–even before I knew it was labeled as such.

    As I have searched the scriptures and examined my own journey, I’m finding out that I’m a little bit Calvinist AND Arminian. (Why is Donnie and Marie’s “She’s a Little Bit Country And He’s A Little Bit Rock-N-Roll” bouncing in my head?)

    I’ll explain.
    Total Depravity agrues that the entire process of salvation (election, redemption, regeneration) is the work of God and is by grace alone. Thus God, not man, determines who will be the recipients of the gift of salvation. Arminianism suggests that man plays a role in ‘choosing’ to accept this grace and somewhat ‘cooperate’ with God in the process. God has provided salvation to everyone, but man makes his provision effective by choosing according to the free will God grants him. Man takes more of a decisive role.

    As far as the Free Will vs. Predestination/Election issue goes, I see it like walking thru a doorway. On this side, the side above it reads ‘Whosever Will May Come’. Once we are on the other side, you look back and it reads ‘Those He Foreknew He Also Predestined to Become Sons of God’. Calvinism would argue that God bestows faith on those whom He elected before the foundation of the world, regardless of any forseen reaction to obedience (like winning the lottery). Arminianism agrues that election is based on God’s sovreign knowledge of what man would do in response to his grace.

    Limited Atonement (Calvinism) states that Christ’s death secured salvation only for the elect. Arminism agrues that it secured salvation for anyone, but that it will be the elect who respond.

    One caveat: Arminism also argues that the elect can lose their salavation by falling from Grace. Calvinism supports the idea that all who are chosen by God, redeemed by Christ, and given faith by the Spirit are eternally saved. They are kept in faith by the power of Almighty God and thus persevere to the end. Having experienced an incredible amount of unfathomable grace in the past few years, my spirit resonates much more loudly with this point of Calvinism.

    Of course, I some incredible, godly friends who are hardcore 5-point Calvinists (Hi, Jimmie!). We are brothers in the truest sense.

    I could be wrong in my belief system, but this is where the journey has led me today. And if, when I see Him face to face, He says, “Dude…you were so off…”, I’m okay with that.

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  • Emergent Threat

    Jun 4th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I am emergent. I am conservative. But I am not MPD [multiple personality disorder]. Can the two live in harmony?

    Terms like ‘emergent’ and ‘postmodern’ are dangerous and often heretical.

    Primarily because each one has hundreds of imposed definitions. As of late, the emergent movement/church has been a big topic of debate among conservative [SBC] circles especially. Even in the most recent issue of SBC Life. The ‘younger leaders’ dialogues with Jimmy Draper. The un-inviting of Brian McLaren to the Kentucky State Convention over a [mis-quoted] statement he made…the list goes on.

    As a member of The Ooze, I’ve been refreshed by the emergent conversation for the past few years. This week, Spencer Burke, Brian McLaren,Tony Jones, and others have posted a collective statement about what their view of ‘emergence’ is and is not…

    It is WELL worth your attention and discernment. You decide if it is heresy or a search for an authentic God?

    http://www.theooze.com/articles/article.cfm?id=1151

    I’d love to hear your comments!

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  • [what i worship]

    May 26th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    I give lip service to this whole ‘God thing’
    Coming in here and praying and praising
    Lifting up holy hands, bending holy knees,
    while looking at my holy watch
    But this isn’t what I really worship
    If you want to see my worship
    Don’t stand next to me here in this place
    Don’t look at my words and my prayers
    And all of my learned motions that come
    Not from my heart, but from what I have seen others do
    Don’t look at the way I speak, parrot-like, the words I hear others say
    If you want to know what I really worship
    Walk with me
    Follow me
    Live with me
    Crawl into my head and see where my thoughts go
    Go through the days and weeks of my life with me
    And see what I worship not by what I say
    But by how I live.

    You wanna know what I worship?
    I worship food
    In ways that are far from natural
    I think about it most of the day
    Chicken, pizza, cheeseburgers, steak and cheese sandwiches,
    Hot wings, lasagna, shrimp tacos from Chuy’s, mustard on everything, fast food, good food, greasy spoon food, barbeque Dungeoness crab from Joe’s Crab Shack, Chic-fil-a waffle fries, Venti No-whip mocha from Starbucks
    Mmmm…Starbucks…
    O great god of coffee, I bow to your caffeinated greatness

    You wanna know what I worship?
    I worship gadgets
    If it blinks and has a power cord I will sing its praise
    I will bring it offerings of money and time
    O Lord Laptop, when I in awesome wonder
    Consider all your 15 inch display
    Your wireless net, your cd-rom for burning
    I love your power for all the games I play
    Then sings my soul, my laptop, god to thee
    How Great thou art, How great thou art


    You wanna know what I worship?
    I worship other people
    I may not walk up to you and bow to you
    I don’t sacrifice live chickens at your feet
    But I do worship you
    Putting my feelings of self-worth,
    of security,
    of am I good enough,
    of am I smart enough, cute enough, cool enough
    In your hands
    Spending most of my time trying to find new ways for you to like me
    New ways to make sure that you don’t leave me
    Run from me
    Find someone cooler
    New ways to make sure you don’t
    Find someone more fun

    You wanna know what I worship?
    When you push past everything else
    When you stop believing the lies
    that even I believe
    When you tear off the curtain and show the wizard
    For who he really is
    When you add up all of the
    Time spent
    And thoughts spent
    And emotions spent
    And energy spent
    And talents spent
    You find the throne of my worship
    And on the throne
    Sits me
    You wanna know what I worship?
    I worship me
    and I don’t want to do it anymore.

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  • [my own little cyber-corner]

    May 26th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    Welcome to tomcottar’s blog, watch out for up-to-date rants, reviews, and other random observings!

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  • Community On The Fly?

    May 26th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    How would you define ‘community’? It’s almost a ruined word, I know. In fact, a friend sent me an email this week telling me so [and he's a pretty bright guy]. But what does it mean really? Is it ‘fellowship’? Eating together? Sharing life’s burdens?

    The following are some random thoughts from that email:

    Community means availability. It means time spent together. Real time.
    Time for conversation, interaction, and a deepening of communion, of
    intimacy between 2 or more people. Community is never general or generic.
    It is always specific and definable by people spending time together.
    Now, time spent together does not guarentee community. There has to be a
    certain quality to the time spent together. Time doesn’t guarentee it but
    it is a pre-requisite.

    Community means vulnerability. If we aren’t willing to open up our lives
    to others we will never experience true community. This is why mutual
    confession builds community. We come to the table with our strengths and
    our weakenesses and we lay ourselves bare, exposed to the scrutiny and
    more importantly the love, acceptance and forgiveness of others.

    Community means stability. If we want to experience community, we need to be
    rooted somewhere among some people. If we constantly move on in search of
    greener pastures we will not be around long enough to grow the roots
    necessary for community. Community can not happen on the fly.

    What do you think? How would you define biblical community? What is it that makes a youth group, or a church, or a neighborhood so bound together that they weather any storm that comes? In fact, in community, they not only survive, but flourish….what makes that possible?

    If the above comments are the theory of building community, where are the nuts-and-bolts? How do you convince people to spend large amounts of time together? How do you convince them that the fruit is worth the time-investment? How do you reach the point of mutual confession and vulnerability?

    Our student ministry has endured the 40 Days routine, survived small groups, and has built a nice little club that doesn’t readily accept strangers. It does ‘fellowship’ well, but ‘community’? Not so much…

    While we are turned inward, all the world sees is a bunch of rears…

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  • Tr33top was here [for about a day]

    May 23rd 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    So, a few nights ago, [Wednesday, May 18, to be exact] I got my house tagged by some low-rent, gangbanger wannabe. “Tr33top. CK-65″ Whatever that means. I came home from my evening jog [I'm up to 6 miles now] and there was our local Travis County five-0 in my driveway, protecting and serving my newly violated fence. It seems that three young men, a couple cans of spray paint, and a few spare moments of free time converged on my privacy fence while I was out trying to raise my pulse. I guess I could have stayed home and done that.

    I live in a decent neighborhood in north Austin [TX]. A place where families walk the neighborhoods in the evenings, kids ride bikes, people jog, etc. It’s also a multi-ethnic and multi-economic clump of families. A pretty good cross section of our demographic. I had taken off on a jog in order to think and pray specifically about ways our ministry can be intentionally more missional.

    I’m glad we got tagged. One of my neighbors (total stranger at the time) came by after he got off work the next night [at 9pm].

    “I’ve got a power washer at my house. If you don’t mind, I’ll run home and get it and I’ll wash this stuff off for you.”

    Huh?

    I was pretty dumbfounded. “Uh. Um. Well,….okay.”

    Austin. 9pm. A total stranger asks if he can do me a favor.

    I’m feeling guilty at his offer of kindness (in Big Church we call that ‘grace’), so I go out to help him. Actually, I just stand there and make with the chatter.

    It turns out that he and his wife live a few doors down. They’re newly married. No kids. He works at Dell and loves to fish. In my mind, I’m wondering why this guy is so nice. He’s talking about work and how he sits behind a desk and how he doesn’t mind getting soaked doing this because he needs the exercise.

    As he works, I notice that the pressure washer is taking off the spray paint…along with the ‘color’ of the fence, which he explains is just mildew and my fence will look like new when he’s done.

    [He's right. Just like when Christ entered my life, He took away the stuff I was aware of, but He also took away the things I had grown accustomed to. All new...]

    We set up a weekend to get together and cookout with the families. We talked about fishing together after he gets done with a big work project. We laughed. Told jokes. Talked about work, marriage, and adulthood. Then he asked the big question: “What do you do?”
    Here it comes, I thought. Maybe this guy is a believer.

    “I’m a minister.”

    “Oh. Cool.”

    “Yeah, Sunday is my only day to sleep in. And fish. Maybe you and I can go fishing after church one weekend.”

    And the conversation moved on.
    In a sense, he really ministered to me. I was worried about how our ministry can be more missionally minded, and my seemingly lost neighbor showed me what I needed to be doing.

    The Bottom Line:
    What if we, The Body, intentionally spent more time and energy meeting the needs of our literal and physical neighbors vs. the etheral ones across the planet? I know I people in Sudan need Jesus, but so do the punks that tagged my fence. Have we neglected ‘Jerusalem’ for the sake of Samaria? And, is it possible for the unbeliever to minister to the believer? Does God use ‘worldly’ kindness to express grace to The Body?

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  • The Tao of Anthony Keidis

    May 17th 2005

    By: tom cottar

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    Red Hot Chili Peppers.

    Blood. Sugar. Sex. Magik.

    Give It Away…..Remember?
    What I’ve got you’ve got to give it to your mama.
    What I’ve got you’ve got to give it to your papa.
    What I’ve got you’ve got to give it to your daughter.
    You do a little dance and you drink a little water…

    Realize i don’t want to be a miser.
    Confide with sly, you’ll be the wiser.
    Young blood is the lovin’ upriser.
    How come everybody want to keep it like the Kaiser?

    Give it away, give it away, give it away now….

    But not for most of us. Someone once said ‘our houses are just boxes for our stuff’. ..We get more stuff, so we need bigger houses to put our stuff in. Then our stuff starts to break or get old (or someone else gets newer, better stuff) and we have to buy MORE stuff…

    Then I remember someone else saying something about ‘if you see someone in need, give to him without expecting to be repaid’. In other words, travel light. The less ‘stuff’ I have, the less I have to worry about fixing, insuring, replacing, protecting, storing, and replacing it.

    Yeah, I need some stuff: transportation, food, shelter, water and electricity, a few clothes. But what do I REALLY need? If I can learn to travel light, will the journey be better?

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